When confronted with annoying change, sometimes the thing to do is simple: change your own perspective.
Over the past couple years, I have been fighting disappointment and anger over the callous action of my condo association which is just a little too chainsaw-happy. When they cut down two huge albizias, (allegedly some sort of threat), whose treetop-level flowering I always enjoyed from my tenth-floor lanai, I was devastated and angry. My night-time meditation practice, my morning coffee, my afternoon reading, was disrupted, ruined even. Now I had a glorious view of...the parking lot! These majestic trees, I often said, were what made me love my otherwise very ordinary apartment, the asset that spoke to my soul. I began to retreat inside, and nursed the wound as if my own trunk had been sliced just at the root.
Only just recently I discovered all I had to do was move myself, my chair, my cushion, to the other side of the lanai. Moving some potted plants around to block the view of the parking lot, and reorienting my view from the northwest to the southwest, et voila, I have a peaceful natural space again. I still miss those trees, the way I miss my parents, my aunts and uncles, cousins, and friends who have passed on. When I meditate, I can still feel their presence. But just by shifting my position, I find all is well.
3 years ago